There are so many occupations where so much time and energy are devoted to and focused on helping others. Teaching is one of those. We've all benefited from teachers who have left a positive influence on our lives. My favorite teacher of all time was my fifth and sixth grade teacher, John Hennessy. The impact he had on me was indescribable. I will always be thankful for Mr. Hennessy. God Bless our teachers.
Then I think of nurses. I could not be a nurse, but I sure admire the profession. Just as in all professions you will run across some good ones and some not so good ones. But for the most part my experience with nurses has been a positive one. They hold hands, give meds, clean up our messes, keep charts up to date, serve as a liaison between patient and doctor and the list goes on. God bless our nurses.
And the list goes on, doctors, bus drivers, janitors, counselors, researchers, pastors, secretaries, military men and women, and so many other professions. Sometimes the work others do is not seen directly by us but affects us nonetheless.
And of course, last but not least, parents. I was blessed with wonderful Christian parents who raised me with love, patience, firmness, and understanding. Although my daddy has passed on to his Heavenly home, I am still blessed with the presence of my mom and step-dad.
Now, let me just say, that in almost every profession, we run the risk of not taking time for ourselves. Being a mom with six children at home, and several of them with special needs there is very little time left over for myself. I am coming to realize the importance of taking some time to recharge and refresh myself. When I am recharged and refreshed, I am going to be more effective at what I do.
So, what does this have to do with grief? A lot! In the midst of deep grief it is important to realize that it is okay and necessary to stop long enough to do something kind for ourselves. Even when we just feel like we don't have the energy, if we go ahead and take that time for ourselves we will find ourselves feeling more relaxed and more positive. It could mean going down to your favorite coffee shop and actually sitting down, perhaps with a good book and reading a chapter or two. Maybe it's taking a long bubble bath, taking a hike at a nearby park, riding your bike around the block. You know the things you enjoy. And if none of those sound like fun, try something new! I'm wanting to learn to ride horses! (Smiling) And I'm still waiting for my ship to come in so I can buy that Harley! (True!)
Remember, we only get one shot at this - let's make the most of it! I am so blessed to have you on this journey with me. I always welcome your comments. Don't forget to share this post with others who need encouragement on their journey! Also, don't forget that you can go to the Facebook page for "Grieving the Loss, Sunshine After the Storm." Just click on the "Like" tab and updates will be posted to your timeline.
Never stop looking for the
Sunshine After the Storm
Blessings Friends!
Betsy
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